Often, one of the steps a lover-boy takes is to take you away on a trip, or to suggest moving away from your home, or even to a foreign country.

Think things over before travelling anywhere with him.

If you still want to travel or move with him, use this pre-travel checklist to make sure you are loving with your eyes open.

Even when we take steps to try to keep ourselves safe, it is important to remember that you should not blame yourself for someone else’s abuse or exploitation of you. That person is fully responsible for their actions, and it might not be possible to protect yourself from such abuse. It is never your fault.